Monday, March 2, 2015

5 Things to Never Stop Doing With Your #Kids

5 Things to Never Stop Doing with your Kids (even when they're grown)

Kids grow up fast!
We all know the saying, and we as parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings and more live it every day - we see the children in our lives grow up all too quickly. 
My son will be turning 13 this year - a teenager! - when did THAT happen?!

But as our children grow, it's important to keep our relationships growing along with them. From toddler tantrums to the doldrums of adolescence, our job certainly doesn't get easier, but it does get less involved. We don't need to watch them every minute, and they don't our hands to hold them up on walks anymore (sniff sniff!)

So how do we keep nurturing that all-important relationship? Even as both we and our children change over the years, there are always ways to keep the proverbial door open. If you want to develop lifelong relationships with your children, it takes work just like any other relationship - but it is well worth it in the end when you are gifted with grandchildren, a legacy and knowing that you brought some really awesome people into the world.
And so, here are 5 things you should never stop doing with your kids (even when they're grown!) to keep that connection alive.

Saying 'I Love You"
Yes it seems like a given, but as kids get older it often gets said less and less. But just like it's important to remember to feed your kids nourishment (food) for their bodies to grow, it's important for them to be fed emotionally too. Saying those three little words, even when they're met with eye rolls, will all add up like coins in a bank. After all the dramatic years, you get to cash them in with great returns!

Trying New Things
It's fun to show your little baby the world and help them experience all new things, like a first snowfall or discovering the joy of gliding own a slide. But as they get older they will inevitably want to make new discoveries with their friends - great restaurants, movies, music. But it is still possible to share fun experiences with them, and make great memories. 
I love it when my parents or my in-laws include us in great experiences. Next time you go somewhere fun, why not make another trip and invite your (adult) kids? It's a great chance to catch up and be together in a different environment, and keep the fun part of your relationships alive.

Laughing Together
If there is one great thing about social media, it's the ability to share everything - and I must confess that I am totally guilty of (over)sharing funny posts or videos I find on my Facebook feed everyday. I often find things that I think my family would find funny and share it - and I love it when they do the same! This is not only a fun way to relax for a few minutes, but could be a great opportunity to connect with your teen. Share a funny post there, a funny childhood story in person, or play a silly board game that makes you all laugh.

Sharing the Things you Love
When our children are little it's fun to let them in on the things we love to do. Afternoons spent doing crafts, reading on the couch or digging around the garden are all fun to teach and enjoy together. But that doesn't have to stop once they get older! Activities change of course - I don't think there's many adults who still want their Mom to read them a bedtime story ;) - but teaching your kids favorite recipes, handy skills like woodworking or needlecraft, and even just general how-to-run-a-household lessons you've learned over the years, can all be wonderful ways to share with your older child. You'll be making great memories and passing on a legacy of love, openness and patience to future family members!

Just Saying Hi!
Calling someone even just a decade ago was the way most people chose to communicate. Today with so much technology lying around that allows us to communicate through texts, e-mails and instant messages, we tend to forget how nice it can be just to hear a loved ones voice! 
As your children get older and start living their own lives, they will lean less and less on you for advice and insight. Instead they will more often turn to their friends or spouse. And while this is a natural and happy progression, sometimes it's a comfort to hear Mom or dad's familiar voice. 
Maybe they're going through a tough time and are just too tired or stressed to call you themselves, or they don't feel like they should bother you with their seemingly small problems. But taking that ten minutes to make that little call (or Skype!) could make all the difference in their day, week, year or even life! 

Thursday, February 26, 2015

$250 #Amazon #GC #Giveaway: Winter Weight Loss Giveaway

Here is a giveaway I thought you would all like! A chance to win a $250 Amazon Gift Card, plus two other winners will get a $50 gift card!

Good Luck!!

Debbie Jean 


Enter the Winter Weight Loss Giveaway sponsored by Weight Loss Experts for a chance to win one of 3 prizes totaling $350 in Amazon Gift Cards!

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Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Teach Kids to Mod Minecraft - A Great Homeschool Course Deal

My son is obsessed with Minecraft! In fact, it's one of the reasons we started adding coding to our homeschool curriculum this year - he wanted to learn to make his own mods. 
So when I discovered this deal I was so excited to get it for him! I bought a membership and he has been starting his courses this week. They're really neat.

The site teaches to make Minecraft mods using actual JavaScript coding - no pretend 'baby coding techniques here like I've seen on so many other courses. Kids get to use a server to test out their mods that they can even invite their friends to play on. The course teaches by playing an instructional video right alongside a code editor. Besides writing the actual code, it teaches them to memorize it and actually absorb it with neat puzzles (like putting code into proper order) and quick games that make it fun to learn. Your child can learn how to mod and eventually come up with their own creative creations too.

You can grab this now on educents for $5 off too using my promo link below! It is really a great price at $24.99 - most coding courses cost WAY more!

Monday, February 23, 2015

#Free #Kindle Books : Clean #Romance Reads to Cozy up With!

Here are some great free Kindle reads to cozy up with this week! Enjoy :)

Courting Cate
Leslie Gould

Courting Cate

In Paradise, Pennsylvania, Cate Miller is known more for her sharp tongue and fiery temper than her striking appearance. Her sweet and flirty sister, Betsy, on the other hand, seems to have attracted most of the bachelors in Lancaster County!

But the sisters' wealthy father has made one hard-and-fast rule: older Cate must marry first, before younger Betsy can even start courting. Unfortunately, untamable Cate has driven away every suitor--until Pete Treger comes to town, that is.

Prodded by the men of the area, Pete turns his attention to winning Cate's hand. But is his interest true or is there a scheme at play?

I actually just finished reading this one, having read another book in this series as part of a blog review Becoming Bea. I love her writing and would highly recommend it - in fact I've also bought book #2, Adoring Addie!
Get it here for FREE on Amazon

Home is Where the Heart Is
Kimberly Rae Jordan

Ten years ago, Violet Collingsworth left the town founded by her family, eager to escape a domineering grandmother and a past filled with hurt. Finally able to pursue her own dreams, Violet has spent the last decade traveling and enjoying adventures in the outdoors she loves so much. But now her grandmother's death has brought her back to Collingsworth and to the conflicted familial relationships of her past. Settling down anywhere, let alone Collingsworth, was not part of her agenda, but a run-in with the town sheriff has her reconsidering. 
Sheriff Dean Marconett has heard plenty about the Collingsworth sister who loved to travel, but he never imagined he'd be so drawn to her when they finally met. Hoping to win her heart, he keeps secret the one thing that might scare her away. Will he be able to convince Violet to consider settling down in the town she fled from so long ago before his secret is revealed? Or will her adventuresome spirit and the hurts and fears of her past, along with his secret, drive her away from a chance at love?
Another great one I have also read and loved!

Daughter of Twin Oaks
Lauraine Snelling
Will the Wounded Soldier She Rescues From Certain Death be Able to Break Down the Walls of Bitterness That Surround Her Heart?

Seeking to fulfill the promise she made to her dying father, eighteen-year-old Jesselynn Highwood determines to take her little brother and the family's remaining Thoroughbreds from Twin Oaks plantation in Kentucky to her uncle's farm in Missouri, where they will be safe for the remainder of the Civil War.

Jesselynn is also fleeing a cruel man in Confederate uniform who has pledged to take revenge against her for refusing his hand in marriage. No longer safe at Twin Oaks, she embarks on a perilous journey, taking on the momentous responsibility for the lives and welfare of all who go with her.


Tuesday, February 10, 2015
Friday, January 30, 2015

Prep your #Garden for #Summer -

*This is a post written in collaboration with the sponsor. However, I never publish anything I don't agree with :) Enjoy!
-Debbie Jean

How to get your garden ready for summer
The warm days and long evenings of summer might feel like a long way away, but soon enough it will be time to fire up the barbecue and get the sun loungers out again. However, if you were to glance out at your garden right now, it probably doesn’t look very appealing or attractive.
So, before it gets too late, here are some ways you can get your garden ready for summer, and enjoy the trappings of the warm weather once more.

Replenish your lawn
As soon as spring arrives, the frosty nights should disappear and we’ll no doubt experience more showers. Therefore, take this opportunity to replenish your lawn so that it looks lush and healthy when summer rolls around.
Do some weeding
In the months leading up to summer, the seedlings of invasive, undesirable or weedy plants get established. Therefore, if you weed your beds now instead of waiting until summer, it will be a lot easier to care for and maintain flowers when the sun is shining.
Clean the patio
During wintertime, your garden patio will have accumulated a lot of dirt and grime, which is far from inviting. But if you purchase or hire a powerful jet wash to clean up the patio, your garden will be perfect for hosting kids birthday parties or other special occasions.

Tidy up all the clutter
A garden full of clutter and mess isn’t a nice place to be. But in order to maintain a neat and tidy outdoor space, organisation is the key. So, think about investing in some plastic storage bins; perfect for organising all the children’s toys and gardening equipment.
Add some colour
In addition to planting some bulbs to brighten up your beds, try to add some colour in other places too. This can include painting the garden fence or buying some brightly coloured furnishings including pillows for chairs and an umbrella for the patio table.
Hang up some bird feeders
Although several birds will have migrated to warmer climes over the winter, they’ll soon return togardens up and down the country. So, make and hang up some bird features, and give these lively and alluring creatures a reason to pay a visit.
These are just half a dozen ways you can get your garden ready for summer and when the warm sunshine does decide to make an appearance again, you’ll be glad you got prepared sooner rather than later.
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Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Considerate #Coupons for Couples : #ValentinesDay Gifts

Valentine's Day is the one day every year that people either really love or really hate! I've always loved valentines whether I've been in a relationship or not. In my family it was always a day to give each other special cards and treats to show everyone how much you care, not a day to shame singletons. My husband and I always go out on a special date around then and he always tries to make it a special one. A few years ago he took me to dinner at the Ice Hotel, this year we'll be going to a nice outdoor spa! But no matter how special one day is, the next day you have to get back to reality and your normal day. Not that that's such a horrible thing at all, but after such a lovely day it can sometimes feel...tiring! 

 So when I was contacted to do a review of some fun 'couples coupons', I thought they sounded great! What could be better than a gift that keeps on giving. Especially one that gives breaks to the many throngs of exhausted Moms this Valentines Day!

Good for One Mediocre Shoulder Rub Coupons for Couples aware a set of humorous coupons that make a great Valentine's Day gift. They work just like those same old sets you've seen in the store but with a twist! Just take a look at these:

There's many more great ones that you get in each booklet, but those were my favorites :)

If you'd like to get a set for your significant other (or leave a not so subtle hint out for them!) you can check out the Amazon page here!